Thoughts for the soul…

Ever hear this saying…..


…..this blog is my art. I don’t write about personal or emotional things too much but I have been going through a type of “relationship” for the last year and it’s over now and I felt the urge to write it out. It was a complicated relationship filled with a lot of chaos, confusion, frustration and heartache but it was also the best relationship God could have given to me at the time. Coming off of another toxic situation last year, he placed this person into my life for a reason, many reasons as I realize now. This last year I learned who I really am, what I really want in a partner, life and to never, ever lose yourself in a relationship. This man became my best friend. We leaned on each other constantly day and night, night and day. In another life, I probably could have seen myself marrying him eventually, however, due to unchangeable circumstances the relationship part of us, is over. And now, we need to decide how to move forward as friends. I always thought we were better friends than lovers {I hate that word} anyway so I have a great deal of faith that we will maintain that.




Sophia Bush Article

Two months ago I read this interview/article {above- PS I pieced that parts I wanted to share. See the full article on the link} and it really changed the way I think of relationships. It’s with my home girl Sophia Bush and she talks about how people come into your lives at the times you really need them. They serve a purpose, “it’s a reason, season or a lifetime,” and this last relationship was a season and it was a great season because I learned about myself. He built me up and really made me see how beautiful, smart and amazing I actually am. After feeling so horrible about myself after the toxic mess from 2015 he was exactly what God ordered to work “in me”. Now I am stronger, more confident and ready to do bigger things as the person I believe I was always meant to be. I owe him a lot for bringing me to this place in my life. And it’s hard to let go and move forward, but I am ready to see what God has in store next, because I think it’s going to be incredibly sensational!

Here are some of my favorite inspirational quotes & why…


I have a few from Sophia Bush by the way, I think she is SO admirable, a strong woman and has an amazing mind. But anyway, it’s okay to be a hot mess as you are learning who you want to be. That’s the point of life, to keep learning, keep growing and mold yourself into the person God made you to be!


Let’s face it, it’s true. I often feel like every time something bad ends that I keep giving and giving and I don’t receive the same back and that’s just not fair. Wait for someone who gives you what you deserve.


Don’t ever lose your fire!!! But if you do, get it back! Find what makes you happy again, what makes you smile and what makes you feel like you can relax and breath.


Sometimes, most times, you can’t see the plan… you just have to trust it and know Him.


Probably the best.quote.of.all.time!! {well for the purpose of this blog}
You cannot and will not love the person you are with if you do not love yourself first. How do you expect someone else to love you if you don’t love yourself? It’s always good to learn and grow but in the same respect love who you are and be honest with yourself and others that you are still transpiring into who you want to be. “You’re allowed to be a masterpiece and a work of art at the same time,” remember?!


XO, Jenn

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